Thinking About Divorce:
What To Do First
(& What To Avoid Early On)
Designed to help you stay regulated, informed, and protected — before making any decisions.
A calm, self-paced orientation for people in the earliest stage of divorce.
If you’re here, you may be feeling overwhelmed, confused, frozen, or suddenly under pressure to make decisions you’re not ready for.
This guide is designed to help you slow things down, understand what’s actually happening, and avoid common early mistakes that can make divorce more painful and expensive than it needs to be.
Nothing in this guide requires you to decide anything right now.
6 self-paced PDF modules • Delivered weekly by email • No portal or platform required
What’s Included
1. What’s Actually Happening (You’re Not Crazy)
2. The First 30 Days: What Matters, What Doesn’t
3. Emotional Regulation (So You Don’t Hurt Your Case)
4. What NOT to Say or Do (This Saves Money and Results)
5. Gathering Information Without Spiraling
6. When to Get Help — and From Whom
This Guide Is For People
Thinking seriously about divorce but not ready to act
Feeling overwhelmed, dysregulated, or unsure what to do first
Afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing
Wanting clarity without pressure
Needing guidance that is calm, grounded, and non-alarmist
You do not need to be “sure.”
You do not need to have a plan.
You just need a place to land.
This Guide Helps You
Understand why everything feels so intense right now
Stay emotionally regulated so you don’t hurt your case
Know what matters in the first 30 days — and what doesn’t
Avoid common early mistakes that escalate conflict
Gather information without spiraling
Choose support wisely, instead of urgently
Many people take this guide before speaking to an attorney — helping them avoid unnecessary time, expense, and stress later.
Pricing
Choose the rate that fits your current capacity. No explanation required.
Full Rate
$72
$12 a week
Supported Rate
$60
$10 a week
Access Rate
$48
$8 a week
About Your Guide
I’m Natasha Bacca — a Divorce Doula, certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach, certified Mediator, and long-time educator.
I walk with people through the ashes of life transitions and into their rebirth — offering soulful tools, practical clarity, and spiritual grounding.
With a Master’s Degree in Education and over 20 years of teaching experience, I created this guide to make the earliest stage of divorce feel less overwhelming — and help you understand what matters before you make major decisions.
My passion is helping you release what no longer serves, reclaim your voice, and rise radiant into your next chapter.
I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
💌 Questions or support? Reach me at DivorceDoula@NatashaBacca.com
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. All materials are sent via email as PDFs — simple and accessible.
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You’ll get your first bundle (Intro + Week 1) the Monday following payment; then a new lesson each week for the duration of the course.
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Plan for 60–120 minutes per week, at your own pace.
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You keep all PDFs forever — move at your own rhythm.
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No. Enrollment is a commitment to your healing journey. Try Foundations first if you’re unsure.
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No. This is a self-paced course. If you’d like extra support, optional 1:1 sessions with Natasha are available separately.
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No. This guide provides education, orientation, and practical support for the early stages of divorce. It is not legal advice or a substitute for an attorney or therapist.