Should I Stay or Should I Go:
A Trauma-Informed Guide for Finding Clarity in Relationships
This is a gentle, self-paced guide for people standing at a crossroads — not ready to decide, but needing truth, steadiness, and self-trust.
If you’re feeling torn, confused, or stuck in cycles of doubt, this guide offers a quiet place to listen inward — without being rushed toward any outcome.
Nothing here pushes you to leave.
Nothing here pressures you to stay.
Everything here is about helping you hear yourself clearly.
17 self-paced PDF modules • Delivered weekly by email • No portal or platform required
What's Included
1. How You Know Something Is Off
2. Why This Decision Is So Hard
3. The In-Between Stage
4. What Your Nervous System Is Telling You
5. Practices for Clarity
6. If I Stay
7. If I Go
8. The Myths That Keep People Stuck
9. When Choice Hasn’t Always Been Safe
10. Relationship Realities
11. Mapping Reality
12. Preparing Without Deciding
13. Staying for Now
14. Leaving When You’re Ready
15. When the Answer Arrives
16. Ending Self-Abandonment
17. It Was Never About Staying or Going
This Guide Is For People
Asking “Should I stay or should I go?” — and getting different answers from everyone else
Feeling emotionally exhausted by indecision
Afraid of making the wrong choice
Toggling between hope and resignation
Staying “for now” but unsure how long that can last
Wanting clarity without ultimatums, pressure, or shame
You do not need to be certain.
You do not need a plan.
You do not need to justify why you’re
still undecided.
You just need a place to listen honestly.
This Guide Helps You
Understand why this decision feels so hard
Separate fear from intuition
Identify patterns without rushing to conclusions
Clarify what you’re tolerating vs. choosing
Reconnect with your internal compass
Make space for a decision to emerge — in its own time
This is about discernment, not action.
About truth, not urgency.
About self-trust, not external advice.
Pricing
Choose the rate that fits your current capacity. No explanation required.
Full Rate
$187
$11 a week
Supported Rate
$153
$9 a week
Access Rate
$119
$7 a week
About Your Guide
I’m Natasha Bacca — a Divorce Doula, certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach, certified Mediator, and long-time educator.
I walk with people through the ashes of life transitions and into their rebirth — offering soulful tools, practical clarity, and spiritual grounding.
With a Master’s Degree in Education and over 20 years of teaching experience, I created this guide to support people find clarity.
My passion is helping you release what no longer serves, reclaim your voice, and rise radiant into your next chapter.
I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
💌 Questions or support? Reach me at DivorceDoula@NatashaBacca.com
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. All materials are sent via email as PDFs — simple and accessible.
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You’ll get your first bundle (Intro + Week 1) the Monday following payment; then a new lesson each week for the duration of the course.
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Plan for 60–120 minutes per week, at your own pace.
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You keep all PDFs forever — move at your own rhythm.
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No. Enrollment is a commitment to your healing journey. Try Foundations first if you’re unsure.
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No. This is a self-paced course. If you’d like extra support, optional 1:1 sessions with Natasha are available separately.